Monday, October 27, 2014

Men, Women & Children - 2 1/2 stars

Men, Women & Children follows the story of a group of high school teenagers and their parents as they attempt to navigate the many ways the internet has changed their relationships, their communication, their self-image, and their love lives.  But it’s very heavy-handed about it …

There are a lot of characters in this movie.  Helen (Rosemarie DeWitt) and Don (Adam Sandler) are stuck in a loveless marriage, and each of them is thinking about having an affair.  Don uses his son’s computer to view internet porn.  His son has been addicted to internet porn since he was young, and he’s gotten so desensitized to normal sexuality that his first sexual experience with a real girl doesn’t go well.

Jennifer Garner plays Patricia, a mother who does nothing but worry about who her daughter is chatting with online.  She has nothing to worry about, but that doesn’t stop her from monitoring everything her daughter does.  Every night she logs into her daughter’s computer and phone and reads every message and text.  This becomes a problem when her daughter gets a boyfriend, a nice guy named Tim.  Tim is addicted to online gaming and his mother recently split for LA.  His newly single father Kent isn’t interested in dating again until he meets Joan.

Joan Clint (Judy Greer) is obsessed with helping her daughter Hannah become a celebrity.  She helps her by taking pictures of everything Hannah does and posting them to a website.  The website was originally intended to be like an online resume for Hannah’s acting ambitions, but Joan discovered that there’s money to be made in a “member’s only” section of the website …

There’s also a girl who used to be fat but is skinny now, and she’s determined to have her first kiss with the football player who made fun of her last year. 

There are some good stories here and I wasn’t bored watching this movie.  There were some cool effects used to show everyone on their phones.  When we see a hallway full of students getting out of class, they’re all on their phones.  Above their heads, we see the various screen shots of their text, facebook chats, and other stuff.  It’s a cool device to show how each person is in their own little world instead of interacting with each other.

Despite the good stuff, the movie falls flat.  It feels like it’s trying to be too important and profound.  We know the dangers of online dating and that we need to be aware of what our kids are doing online.  These are good themes for a movie to explore, but I think this movie bites off more than it can chew.  And the movie keeps cutting back to scenes of the Voyager spacecraft exploring the solar system and referencing Pale Blue Dot by Carl Sagan.  Profound stuff but the movie’s not that deep.


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